The positive lessons from RAD.
(from the patches family foundation)
Positive??? Yes! Positive.......
- I am no longer judgemental towards other parents struggling with a naughty child.
- I probably know more about attachment than 90% of professionals!
- I can share attachment advice to the new parents I work with to help prevent RAD.
- I have learned what it takes to truly love someone when you least feel the mushy feelings.
- I have learned I am not the person I used to be....as the trials have matured me.
- I have become more skilled in spotting issues in others quickly.
- I have learned the true value of peace and quiet.
- I have become strong trough the trials I have endured.
- I have been weak through the trials I have endured.
- I have learned there are no quick fix answers in life.
- I have learned that some people don't want to learn.
- I have learned that some people do want to learn.
- I have learned that it does not matter what others think of me.
- I have learned my well being does not need other people's approval.
- I have learned it ONLY matters what God thinks of me.
- I have learned I was hand picked by God above and been called to love the sick, poor and needy in every sense of the word.
- I have learned I am not alone.
- I have met some amazing warriors all over the world also walking the same hard road.
- I have learned I am also a survivor.
- I have become softer and more mature in my outlook on life.
- I have become more understanding of the complex issues of parents able to hurt their own children.
- I have learned what true forgiveness really means (and takes).
- I have learned what it means to offer selfless love to another.
- I have delighted in the small positive steps.
- I have learned it takes truly special parents to love hurting kids.
- I have learned life is not always easy.
- I have learned I can deal with rejection and still keep on loving.
- I have learned trust in God above to heal my son.
- I have learned trust in God above to heal my wounds too.
- I have seen the miracles of hurting, damaged kids become healed, productive adults.
- I have learned the value of true friendship.
- I have learned that my experience allows me to reach out to other hurting kids and families.
- I have had more qualifications in my home than from any university.
- I have learned to dance in the rain.
- most importantly I have met amazing parents and survivors who I share a special and unbreakable bond with that few would ever understand.
- I am honoured and privileged I have met truly amazing others who do not get the credit they are due.
- I am blessed to know you all - each and every one of you ❤
-E.C.
- I have delighted in the small positive steps.
- I have learned it takes truly special parents to love hurting kids.
- I have learned life is not always easy.
- I have learned I can deal with rejection and still keep on loving.
- I have learned trust in God above to heal my son.
- I have learned trust in God above to heal my wounds too.
- I have seen the miracles of hurting, damaged kids become healed, productive adults.
- I have learned the value of true friendship.
- I have learned that my experience allows me to reach out to other hurting kids and families.
- I have had more qualifications in my home than from any university.
- I have learned to dance in the rain.
- most importantly I have met amazing parents and survivors who I share a special and unbreakable bond with that few would ever understand.
- I am honoured and privileged I have met truly amazing others who do not get the credit they are due.
- I am blessed to know you all - each and every one of you ❤
-E.C.
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